Thursday, August 28, 2014

Loyalty ... ❤

早婚率上升
離婚率也上升

I mentioned earlier here that in 21st Century, people no longer committing even 50% of loyalty into the relationship she/he has chosen to be into!
I don't get this!!!!

When it comes to relationship ...
If both of you (it doesn't matter heterosexual or homosexual) like each other then you are good to go into a relationship and start your commitment. If either one of the party don't have the exact feeling for committing to the other party, then just call it off and don't even start the relationship. 

Life is short! 
If you have chosen to be with someone whom you don't really feel like committing then you would have wasted year's time sticking into the relationship and you are wasting people's time as well. 
Maybe loneliness moved you toward someone whom you don't really feel like it and you are thinking about using each other til you finally find the right one then you are being selfish! 

Be responsible!
Once you started a relationship then stay loyal and start making effort on it! 
Once you've decided she/he is the right person in your life, you stick with the decision til the end/death. 
Once you've decided to be married with the right person in your life (who you chosen), stay loyal and make greater effort on it. 

When something changes ...
You don't just go for the other girl/guy without talking about it with your spouse! 
You don't just go away like nothing happened between you guys! 
You don't just stop committing to each other!

Life is short! Stop wasting people's time! 
If you are not ready, then get a fling or go for prostitute instead of holding on someone. 
If you are not ready for the commitment and effort you are going to make for a family, don't get married. (even you guys are having a baby soon)
If you are not sure whether you are ready then don't start it at all. 

Be responsible with your decision!
Without responsibility, you get nothing done!

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Stage Fright ... ❤


Have you spoken in public/in front of the class before?' 
Do you have stage fright?'
I think everyone has it! Am i right?' It is just the way how you handle it ...

I'm having Public Speaking this semester ... 

I'm always admired and inspired to be those whom can speak well in public. 
I have a friend, she speak out her mind very well and not frighten about speaking in front of the class (the class is approximately 50+ pupils man!)! Oh yeah! She sings! I always wanted to be one but i always have those butterflies in my stomach and shivering whenever it is the time to speak.

So we were discussing about our own stage fright ...
There was linguistic, audience's reaction during the speech, not being well-prepared and so on. 
My biggest stage fear is that people staring at me! 

Maybe they are showing respect because i'm giving speech?'
Maybe they find the way i'm standing/speaking is pretentious or too loud?'
Maybe ... I don't know lah!

What made me so concern about that is ... 
I'm afraid people staring at me when i'm giving a speech and it has nothing to do with my presentation but something like messy hair, outfit mishaps, indecency and so on. >...<

I just dislike people staring at me even when i'm off the stage!
Like what are you staring at?' If my zip is not up then tell me lah! xD 

Just sharing my thoughts ... ❤
What is yours then?' 

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

For All the Beautiful Girls ... ❤


Just wanna say ... 

Be confident! 
Every girls/women is beautiful and pretty!

The pimples scars or blemishes may create imperfections but ... 
Imperfection is beautiful and it is what making you unique! 

Remember that you live for yourself. Not others! 
Embrace yourself and live beautifully and confidently!

You Go, Girls! ❤

有一位長得蠻漂亮的女生朋友,因為青春期所以長了豆豆!豆豆因環境關係而增加或減少,這使她喪失了原有的自信心。我也是因青春期,長了滿臉豆(現在老了,長得比較沒那麼猖狂),還記得別人都會問 "你臉怎麼長那麼多豆豆啊?你都沒洗臉嗎?(你是白癡嗎?)" " 你臉怎麼那麼嚴重?(對啊!謝謝你的提醒)" " 你臉怎麼長怎麼多豆豆? "之類的話!其實,我真的很想說,長豆豆不是我要的好嗎?能選的話,我為什麼會不選在你的臉上呢?我咋會那麼傻選在自己的臉上呢?!

其實喜歡你的人,更本不會在意你臉上有一千顆豆豆。不喜歡你的人,連你呼吸他都是不喜歡,所以沒有必要在意這些人!

知道外表在這以貌取人的21世紀里是非常重要,可能決定你的成敗關鍵;但沒有人會怪你長豆豆的啦!只要做好保濕,喝點COLLAGEN的保養品促進膠願蛋白的生長讓肌膚看起來比較年輕,有光澤也幫助修複!

做自己,加油!

❤❤❤

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

My Country ...


Okay ~
I don't know! I'm just annoyed or what!

I'm getting vile with Facebook! It makes me more depress everytimes i check it. Why?' Because there is always 'bad' and 'uncivilized' events posted! I mean, it is real good to have Facebook so that people will get informed with the urgent news, especially the new tactics of thieves or robber and senile is no longer safe and has become the target of robbery. 

I'm getting vile with Facebook! my COUNTRY! 
I read a status written by a Singaporean's public figure said that she went for a ride in train and a Bangladesh offered his seat to her but she said it is okay that she didn't need it but then the Bangladesh retorted her with "You Singaporean, you sit!"! I don't know what you think about the status and Singapore but it doesn't really matter! (you know how Bangladesh behave in Malaysia so skip that) What matter is ... 

I have been wondering why the hell criminal cases in my country have been drastically ascending ... Is people really that poor or what that they are so into robbing! Even policemen became robber (referring to the news earlier) ... 

I have been worrying about my family, friends, myself and other people ... 
I'm not attention seeker that seeking to get posted somewhere and captioned "This girl is so nice that she cares about others!" Who cares about you like really?' I'm just thinking that we work so damn hard to get what we want and what we are having now but those robbers are so imbecile that they just snatch everything we have been working hard to get away from us! Like seriously, what the hell man! Why don't you work and get it yourself?' 

Rumor said it doesn't really matter what crime you are committed, as long as you have the money to make everyone in the room happy then you are free to go! WOW 

Money is everything huh?' 
It might be truth and so be it as there isn't anything i or we could do if it is really that way. The thing is, let's analyze why our country! There is tons of Bangladesh who accidentally 'drop by' our country. There is also our major races and the other minority races. There is foreigners as well. I don't find it different from any other country in the world. Any country could have their own races, foreign workers and foreigners. But why ours criminal cases are so damn high!

A crooked stick will have a crooked shadow! 
No one born to be bad or good! We learn things and follow what example have been always given and preached. I'm not going to talk about those robbers' parents because i'm not sure what went wrong. Parents or Friends?' As no one would ever teach their children to become a thief! I'm not sure whether the robbers acknowledged that they are humiliating themselves and their parents (or maybe they don't have one)! Let's stop here! The term of 'robbers' already makes me so damn sick! 

What i'm trying to say is that ... 
Our country don't set and abide to the rules! Maybe they do set the rules but they aren't being strictly abide! (Set equal to boh set!) Our country is just like our parents! Government / Administration department of the country is just like a parents and we abide to whatever demands and requests they asked for, no matter how 'inconsiderate' and 'petulant' they are just like tambah taxes! So when parents aren't abide to the rules and they are communalism (favored a particular society), the children wouldn't be afraid of the consequences of nefarious the rules and inmate is all over the places! 

If the parents are always abide the rules and be strict, i don't think there will be any problem no matter who has come into our country, let it be Bangladesh or more uncivilized person! 

So whose problem is that?' 

Not only crime has been drastically ascending ... 
Seriously, if no one make any changes to it, i can't imagine how is it like to be in my country in another 5 more years' times! Lazy people will try their best to be lazier! Infamous robbers will try their best to become more infamous by robbing more and more people! Inefficient department will definitely become more inefficient! Bribery is going to become so damn severe that no matter what you want (to apply), you bride then you get, the more your bride the faster you get, you no bride don't ever think about it! 

Sick ... 

Thursday, August 14, 2014

I Will Drive You Home ... ❤

What would you do if you see your siblings or friends walking along side the road?' 
Will you call them and offer them a ride?' Or ... 

If i see my brother walking along side the road, i will get out of / park my car and walk with him! 

The moment when he has his key in the threshold (of our place), 
" Oh ~ Can you walk me back to my car?' It is still where it is, you know?' Come! I will drive you home! " xD

Friday, August 8, 2014

People in 21st Century ... ❤


Howdy guys ... :) 
Let's write something fun yet nasty! xD

It is all about people in 21st Century!

It is about how we (notice that i wrote "we" not "you") evolved from the old-fashioned ideas and etiquette into a brand-new ideas and etiquette and for example like we are no longer showing any manner! #Lol. Let's get started, shall we?' 

1. "Excuse Me!" 
The slipper i'm wearing makes firm "flip flop" sound whenever i descend from staircases. When i feel like scuttle down the way, i make louder "flip flop" and indirectly ask people who on my way to give way (we are avoiding "excuse me" in someway/all the way!) but it don't really work. They still walk in their slow-turtle-yet-elegant-paces. :/ When i'm really in hurry and i clamor "Excuse Me!" for the way, she/he turns and looks at me apologetically (or shock face) and apologizes then give way. Hmph ... I'm pretty sure you have heard me, haven't you?' "flip flop" "flip flop" "flip flop" ... We pretend not to see when people need helps! 


2. No Manner
We don't really show reverent to elder or someone senior anymore, do we?' Hardly a 'YES'! Parents used to taught us to show reverent to the elder or senior no matter whose fault and what they did. But in this century, it's no longer working that way. We show respect to someone who deserves it and it doesn't matter anymore with the age! :O It is a maturation of the society, in a good way. (I think they are because some auntie tend to be petulant/barbaric.) We are no longer feel like queuing! We don't give way or offer them your seat! We don't care about ladies first or ladyboys first etiquette! ANYMORE! 


3. Stay Loyal in the Relationship
Remember there was one (Raya's) holiday week which have made me gained weight and i couldn't fit into S size dresses anymore?' (Still! Still can't fit :( ) I registered myself a BeeTalk's account and started shaking and trying to make new friends (I have gotten rid of it, it was only for holiday)! Candidly, i met (face-to-face) with few people from it. I know it is dangerous (maybe i will do another blog post on how-to-date-safely-with-strangers's post xD) but sometimes if you don't take risk, you never know. #bullshit There were people looking for sex ... People looking for some nasty transaction/money and so on. As well as people who is not single pretends to be single! I don't get it?' They've come to look for their girl/boyfriend?' Hmph ... People just can't stay loyal in a relationship without flirting around and ogling around! Oh Man! #vile #immasingle


4. Fast Money
There was one business in Facebook that ask anyone who is interested to bank in RMxxx into the one's account who you liaison with then the next person who is interested and liaison with you will bank in RMxxx into your account and this is how it rolled. I have to admit that the one came out with the ides was really brilliant! He/She knows how to make money! After that, more and more money-rolling-business emerged! They are indeed cushy-number-job! All you do is keep partying, socializing and making more friends and "bang!" money in into the business and into your account! There is other way to make fast money as well! Prostitution! It is really a fast way in money-making and you don't need to work hard enough to get em! But in the end, all you get is money! #meh! I personally think there aren't really practical, or maybe just me?' *shrug*


5. Marry a Rich Guy
It is all the ladies's dream to get a rich guy for the rest of the life, including me! But shopping all day long, hi-teaing every 3 in the afternoon, showing off my humongous diamond rings etc just aren't my dream (at all)! However, for most of the ladies, YES!, these are their dream! People like to show off the Louis-Vuitton, Chanel, Hermes and whatsoever which bought by their partner, the tawdry restaurants their partner brought them, the prohibitive stuffs and foods which paid by their partners and so on! Okay ~ I'm jealous! A little! because you get to eat good foods free and you don't need to work hard to get them! I am jealous but ... Nah! I don't really do! :/ What i'm trying to say is that nowadays ladies revolve around the dream of getting a rich guy and hardly work for what they want. #okay?


6. Customer is Everything, Remember?'
If your business sustain on return-customer-transaction then you really need to take great care of your staff (shop assistant) who we (customer) liaison with! Nowadays, you walk in almost every shop to a black-face (sour-face) shop assistant and some gives you the no-money-don't-see/i'm-pretty-sure-you-can't-afford-it's face! Or maybe we seriously need to put high-end shop into our essential's list! NO ~ No matter how small is your business, as long as you need revenue to operate your business then you need to take (good) care of your customer! Afterall, your revenue generated from our purchases! No revenue, no business! Train your staff or at least ask them to curse us on our back, not in our face! Lots of business seem to forget about this.


7. Drive Here and There
It is only (max) 3 minutes walk-journey but they always prefer driving! :/ I don't drive so i always walk! #poorme! It increases your regular metabolic rate over time, fight breast cancer?, lower disease's risk, prevent dementia?, reduces body fats, helps you to live longer, reduces stress and so much more! I bet even though i have listed a whole page of benefits of walking, you still prefer driving, aren't you?' Beside than driving, they always prefer to sit whenever possible! There is no way they feel like offering the elder who stands in front of them their seats! Their butts are heavy like ... i don't know! :/ Don't you know that sedentary make butts bigger and wider?'


8. Lifelong Learning
Nah ~ We are no longer want to learn! English is important to the world and i know nothing more than the word "English" then fuck it lah~ Who Cares?' Do you realize when you ask the (cosmetic) shop assistant "What is the difference between this two concealer arr?'", some of them can't answer the question and they start to detour to the other topic/place! Do you realize that?' To be with the cosmetic counter, you need to be trained in regards of the products but i have no idea why it could happen on me when i rarely shop from cosmetic counter! Some of them can't even conduct a simple English conversation. :/ Beside than English, how about "IT"?' since we are all using computers and other telecommunication equipment? xD I don't either! It isn't just you! me too! :/ We just don't feel like working hard on something anymore!!! We just feel like giving all sort of excuses "No Time!", "No Money!", "No ..." xD


9. Teacher / Lecturer
Nowadays, they sit in the classroom, show their face and read. That's all they do! There is always exception and i have met one in my previous semester! She is around 70+ years old and she has come all the way from Kajang to KL just for our class. She loves teaching! It is really rare, perhaps 1 out of 20 lecturer and i was so lucky! Other than that, they solely work because of work and money. They aren't enthusiastic about teaching or sharing! #PityStudents We need more inspired lecturer! #tellmei'mwrong?


10. Photoshop
Nowadays, everyone photoshops their photos a little or more than a little! End of story! xD
Okay lah ~ Everyone is trying to look decent and good when publishing their photos online (and when the possibility of your crush looking at it is so much higher?) and no one is perfect, everyone has flaws and that's why we photoshop! Like pimples, scars, dark circles and so on. Totally understandable! We don't look exactly the same like the photos we posted! Seriously! But we still have the same face features! At least people could recognize you out of the photos you posted. I just don't get it when they photoshop their photos in the way that alter the whole features of her/himself. :/ You so don't like yourself meh?' When come to (body) shaping, we might need that to shape up our body a little but when you drop two or more size with photoshop-ing, it is cheating! Nowadays, people do that without guilt. #LOL


I hope you do enjoy!
Thanks for reading ... ❤

Monday, August 4, 2014

[CAFEKL] Acme Bar & Coffee ... ❤

Mushroom ... 
King's Breakfast ... 
Harsh Brown ... 

Howdy guys ... :)
I'm suffering many side effects of having one week off work and study! 

I'm no longer fit into my S size dress and i have no other working dress other than those S size one :/ 
I have lots of fats in my tummy! 
Became ludicrous because i have nothing to do and i was just trying to occupied myself. xD

Back to the post of the day! 
It's about Acme Bar & Coffee which situated in the Troika's building, around KLCC/LRT Ampang's station. 
It wasn't my first time there. I went there before for Hada Labo Air BB Cream's launch. But i don't remember i have eaten any meal from the restaurant! :/ 

My friend told me they have three different menu. 
Breakfast Menu, Lunch/Brunch Menu and Dinner Menu. 
We went there after our exam on Saturday morning so we got the Breakfast Menu. 

We ordered King's Breakfast, Mushroom ... & Harsh Brown ... 
(i couldn't remember the name :?)

Let's talk about Mushroom one since i'm the one had the dish. 
The salad was not bad. Quite nice. 
There was different types of mushroom inside the pie but it was too much flour-ness for me. The  mushroom was fresh but i wasn't really fancy the combination of them. BUT you will be missing it! I wanna have one now!!!! #SoDamnSerious

We wanted to have the Sizzling Brownie but they serve it only after 12 noon. 
(This is what they told us)

Three dishes with a drink/juice costed us around RM140. 
It was quite expensive and i don't really think it is worthy. Or maybe the Sizzling Brownie is really great ?' *shrug* 

Overall, our rating toward everything was "So So"/ 2.5 out of 5.0. 
But the ambience is real great! 

Thanks for reading ... ❤